How to Find Your Style: 3 Game-Changing Tips to Feel More Confident in Every Outfit
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If you’ve ever stood in front of your closet saying “I have nothing to wear” while staring at hangers full of clothes... you’re not alone.
Finding your personal style can feel confusing especially when trends change so fast, social media shows everything everywhere, and the pressure to “have it all together” keeps rising.
At Rochelle’s House, we believe real style is less about trends and more about alignment. When you feel aligned with what you wear, from colors to cuts to comfort, your confidence skyrockets.
In this post, I’m sharing 3 powerful tips to help you find your unique style in a way that’s simple, authentic, and completely YOU.
✅ 1. Dress for Your Lifestyle, Not the Gram
This is the #1 mistake most women make: they buy what looks good on someone else… and not what feels good in their own daily life.
Style starts with your schedule, not a Pinterest mood board. Are you working from home? Running errands with kids? Juggling meetings and coffee runs? You need a wardrobe that supports your real life.
Style Pro Tip:
Write down the top 3 places you go each week, and build outfits around those routines. This ensures your wardrobe actually works for you.
✅ 2. Identify Your Style Anchors
Style anchors are your personal staples, those go-to items that make you feel good, no matter what.
It could be:
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Structured blazers
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Wide-leg jeans
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Gold hoops
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Flowy blouses
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Soft neutral tones
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Bold prints
Once you know your anchors, it becomes SO much easier to shop with intention and mix-and-match without overthinking.
Style Pro Tip:
Take a selfie in your favorite outfit and ask yourself: What do I love about this? That’s your anchor.
✅ 3. Use the “3-Word Rule” to Stay Consistent
Here’s a stylist secret that changes everything: choose 3 words that describe how you want your style to feel.
Examples:
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Confident, Classic, Clean
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Feminine, Bold, Effortless
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Polished, Minimal, Relaxed
Every time you shop, ask: Does this match my 3 words? If not, leave it behind. This keeps your wardrobe consistent and true to you.
Style Pro Tip:
Write your 3 words on a sticky note and put it inside your closet door. Use it as a filter when you're shopping online or cleaning your closet out.
Bonus: Shop Smart, Not Fast
One of the biggest shifts in personal style comes from slowing down. Instead of impulse buying pieces you think you need, start investing in pieces you can wear 3 different ways.
Ask yourself:
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Can I dress this up AND down?
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Will it work with 2-3 other items I already own?
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Do I feel confident the moment I put it on?
If it’s a yes, it’s a keeper.
Need a Place to Start?
Start with one signature piece like a great-fitting tee, statement blouse, or go-to pair of jeans. We recommend starting with our community-favorite pieces below:
These staples are versatile, flattering, and perfect for mixing and matching as you define your personal style.
Final Words: You Don’t Have to “Get it Right” All at Once
Your personal style is allowed to evolve, just like you. The goal isn’t perfection. It’s alignment.
The more you connect your style to your lifestyle, values, and personality, the more confident you’ll feel every time you get dressed.
And if you ever feel stuck?
Rochelle’s House is always here to help you shop smarter, style better, and feel amazing without breaking the bank.
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